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Furniture M. - No, i don't feel any different because I was anticipating it and expecting it to happen. I mean, it is a relief to be free of having to deal with her. Now that she doesn't need anything, of course she doesn't call. Another one bites the dust.

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Juke -

Well, your divorce happened pretty fast, but I don't think it has the MB record. That belongs to Brett, who lives in Idaho. He found out in April, and tried to stall the D. But he was divorced (and fell in love again), in less than 4 months.

So you probably feel like cr*p right now. But things WILL get better. Take your time. The Harley's say you should not give up on the marriage until 2 years have passed.

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So, whatever happened 2 Brett?

I'm not sure he has the "record", though.

About a year and a half ago, there was Jack55. D-day Dec 5th 2002, DV FINAL Feb 5th 2003. New SERIOUS love interest 10 days later. FxWW dumped and wanting 2 reconcile days later, but it was probably 2late for him.

I hope he's still out there, but I haven't heard from him in a long time. Hope he's doing okay.

-ol' 2long

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I won't give up on her for a while. She did try to call me today for some reason but I didn't answer. I am sure there is something that she wants and it's not me. LOL

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<small>[ September 17, 2004, 07:43 AM: Message edited by: Tom Joad ]</small>

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Tom, you crack me up with some of your posts. Your WW is acting like a hell spawned b&^%# right now, but that may change. My WXW doesn't act like that anymore at all. Once the reality of the mistake she made hit she became much nicer. Wow. I may have placed in the record books! I feel so special. Do I get a trophy for fastest leaving/divorcing WW? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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2long -

Last I heard Brett was still madly in love with E - who was 10 years younger than his WW.

It would be very interesting to have statistics on the quickest D and recovery.

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