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#1186943 09/16/04 02:48 PM
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He was fine for 2 months, but the last couple of days seems to be going into a shell. Just not as attentive to me, not like he has been. Is he in the withdrawl stage and why does it take this long for the WS to start to feel this?

#1186944 09/16/04 03:21 PM
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JG,

Withdrawl is VERY difficult to go through...but 2 months out things should be getting better. Unless, he maintained contact all along (now the guilt is catching up). OR, he fell off the wagon and reconnected. OR, you are close to a trigger date for him.

How long was the A? EA/and or PA? The longer it went and the more emotionally attached they were the more difficult to detach. It's like pulling fish hooks out of your heart.

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#1186945 09/16/04 03:41 PM
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Thanks for help with that issue, it was last September that it started so a trigger date may be the case.


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