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I just started posting -- My WH has has a ea and possibly a pa for the past 7 months. I found MB around the time I found out 7 months ago. I did plan A -- I don't know if I was consistent enough but I tried and changed alot of things that bothered him. Yesterday was my last straw --he never comes home on the weekends and now he becomes totally unavailable by shutting off his cell phone. I went to my parents house and will probably be there unitl I can find away to keep my wh away. I am so sad. I don't want to do this to my kids. I am half way into Dr. H's book and I guess I need to get together a plan b letter. I am just so sad.
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It may comforting to know that there are others out here that are in the same or similar situations....
Keep posting and reading......
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If you have done a solid Plan A and exposed the affair to everyone, might be time for Plan B. Start your Plan B letter, and post it here for input. Make it short.
Then get your ducks in a row as far as financial matters and contact with the children.
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I am trying to be strong -- and starting to think about what I want to say. Its only the first day and I keep looking to see if he called me.
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