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I just talked to my wh -- I took the kids and went to stay at my parents house last night. I told him I needed time to think things thru. He was very upset said I needed to come home, and stop airing our dirty laundry to our family and friends, wanted to know what of his bills I have not paid. Said he didn't call me all weekend because he lost his cell phone. The reason he wasn't at our investment property (where he supposedly stays on the weekends) was because he was at some festival down the street. He kept asking what am I doing when are you coming home. Then it end when he asked does this mean we are separated and I said yes --he hung up on me. I got the first two sentence of the Plan B letter down. This is going to go so badly.
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You are airing your dirty laundry because he made a huge pile of it for you to deal with!
You can tell whoever you want (I think you should expose to OW's daddy who pays her rent personally)
Read up on the Marriage Builder concepts and spend these days getting to know them really well. That will help distract you from your H trying to woo you back (he has not been found out long enough to 'get it' yet)
Once you know the concepts well and implement your drop dead, solid boundaries, you will be able to be the one with the power to decide what happens next.
Good luck, and take focus on yourself and your children for now!
<small>[ September 20, 2004, 02:05 PM: Message edited by: picklesaresour ]</small>
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