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SHE STILL LOVES ME, IM STILL IRAQ, SHES READ THE BOOKS, AND UNDERSTANDS WHY. WHAT IS THE SECRET TO HER MAKING THE TOTAL SEPARATION FROM HIM. HOW DO I GET HER TO AT LEAST TRY. I CANT BE IN HER FACE CAUSE IM STILL IN IRAQ. IREALLY NEED THE SECRETS TO BREAKING AFFAIR. I KNOW STILL STILL LOVES ME JUST IN THE FOG. HELP!!!!
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dont panic...take deep breathes...as long as she is reading then that is a good sign...dont push her too much...try and get her to come to MB forum...so we can help her...
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Dean, does your wife live in base housing or out on the economy?
How big is the base she's living on or near?
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IM AN ACTIVATED NATIONAL GURD SOLDIER, SHE LIVES IN HOME TOWN. BIG PROBLEM, ALL OF HER NORMAL SUPPORT BASE HAS SAID WHAT SHES DOING IS WRONG. THEY LOVE HER BUT WONT ACCEPT WHATS GOING ON. THAT REALLY ANGERS HER. I WAS IN, WE WERE IN THE ARMY FOR 12 YRS, THEN GOT OUT, WERE JUST ADJUSTING, LAST 5 YRS WERE GRAET, NORMAL LIFE. THEN BAM!!!! I LEAVE HER TO FEND FOR SELF. DIDNT EVEN THINK THIS WAS POSSIBLE. SHE SAYS SHE LOVES ME, DONT KNOW HOW, BUT SHE DOES. AM I IN THE FOG FOR BELIEVEING?? I WANT MY WIFE BACK IN MY ARMS, I WANT MY CHILDREN TO SEE ME COME HOME FROM WORK, NOT ANOTHER MAN. THIS IS AS CLOSE TO HELL AS POSSIBLE, JUST NO FLAMES
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Dean -
Are you in Plan A?
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Dean -
There are so many others going what you are going through, it makes me very sad. I am sure your wife loves you, but is just caught up in this thing.
I wish she would come here and post.
It is good that her friends do not support her actions. Usually they do, or are too afraid to say anything.
By the way, thanks for serving and protecting our country from the terrorists. I know that you are paying an extremely high price.
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Dean...first time I'm posting to you. First, a big thanks to you for serving our country, and more or less, the people of this great country of ours. THANK YOU!
Along with what weaver asked, how many times do you actually get to speak with her? I'm not so sure if Plan A'ing would be as effective as you'd like, only due to your circumstances.
However, right now? I think the best thing she could do is what believer wishes: "I wish she would come here and post." This, IMHO, would be the best way for you now. Is there any way you can convince her of this? Have her keep reading. This also seems to be helping her (and putting your mind more at ease.)
Best wishes.
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