Pep, I hope you don't mind, but this post of yours to K, is something I think all of us need to read, and re-read, and memorize. It is something I will paste on my fridge as a daily reminder. So many of us on this board right now struggle with this and you have said it so well.
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"Every day you enforce your boundaries is a new day of self-respect...

The more self-respect you have, the more self-confidence you exude...

The more self-confidence you exude, the stronger your boundaries become...

and so it goes.....

The end point is this ... you become more attractive...

and better able to survive and thrive no matter what your confused H decides to do with his life... even if he continues to "wander" ... you are no longer "wandering after" the confused man.... you become more trusting in your own abilities to be confident and attractive.... and strong."

Pep


(Reprinted without Pep's permissiion, hope she doesn't sue <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> )

<small>[ September 21, 2004, 06:22 AM: Message edited by: weaver ]</small>

Right ON Weaver!

I have put this in my little book of favorite quotes, sayings, and scriptures.

No one could have said it better!

K