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It's now almost 18 months since my WW confessed and left to continue with a mutual friend.

OK - My question is why would a person who I was married to for 10 years and together for 13 simply leave and cut myself and virtually everyone else in her life from her life. My WW has simply left everything behind for her new life with OM?

Maybe this is something others have seen happen.

In fact why have I and the OM wife been left to move our divorces forward? That's right the dream couple have made no attempt to divorce the betrayed spouses. IF I was so bad and our marriage was so terriable I would think she would want to purse the divorce the very first day she could.

again any thoughts or experiances for some WS.

thanks.

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Because they both have been abducted by aliens and had their brains scrambled. Can you think of a more believable explanation?

I can't.

No earthly explanation will do.

We are not alone. (double meaning intended)

<small>[ September 21, 2004, 07:38 PM: Message edited by: worthatry ]</small>

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One of the first things I asked my wife early on in my “adventure” was: “Who are you and what have you done with my wife?” That was before I knew about this site and confirmed the alien abduction theory.

I couldn’t figure her out before the A, so I’m not about to think I can now. My WW didn’t even have the decency to ride far off into the sunset. She bought a house less than 200 meters from mine!


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