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I'm not sure what to do or say, my husband of 8 years says he's not sure he wants to be married anymore. He has cheated on me twice, says he doesn't want to hurt me anymore and that he still loves me. Thinks he needs a break. We talked last nite and I told him if he leaves that i don't think he'll come back. He wanted to know how i could be sure cuz he didn't know. I said i can't sit and hope, for me it's better to try to be real and figure on the worst and hope for the best. I said well you need to figure it out, i can't tell you what to do. Told him I loved him and that I know how he feels but I wait it out and it went away. That it's only human to wonder what if. This morning we have talked and joked more than usual and made plans for the future. I'm lost, need insight....
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kids?
ages?
past affairs lasted how long?
Pep
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Twin 7 year olds
a one nite stand
and the last one was a year and that one was a year and a half ago.
We are both 27 years old
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Well we talked some more last nite. He says he doesn't want to leave, he just wants to have casual sex with someone else. He Needs All the prayers for him. I think i'm married to a sex addict. I'm praying for him, I need all the help with prayers I can get. I also need prayers to help me be strong thru this. my heart is heavy...
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