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Do I cheat on him? Does she cheat on him? Post: 1 | Quote:

I met this girl four months ago. She told me that she was leaving her boyfriend and need a place to stay. Quick as I could I offer her my house and she move in. During these four months stay we have many nights of crazy and hot sex and now she wants to go back to her boyfriend.

Do I cheat on him? Does she cheat on him? I knew that she had some problems, because she told me about them. I'm feeling a lot of guilty in my soul.

If I fall in love with this girls that doesn't belong to me is it an affair?

Any thoughts?

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Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again but expecting different results.

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Lost in pain,

WHY are you posting these questions AGAIN? You have already receive many responses to your posts(which I have read) but you obviously are not heeding them.

You both are messed up and need to figure out just what you want in a relationship with the opposite sex.If it's all about hot craxy sex then keep on keeping on.Whatever.

But,if you want an honest relationship with a woman then you have a lot of learning to do.So does your "girlfriend".What goes around comes around.

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lip,

She broke up w/ her BF, she is an adult, nobody cheat anybody here. You are the victim of Rebound R. Let her go and have NC w/ her. If you continue to have contact physical or emotional w/ her then you are the OP.

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Redhat,

Go back and reread all his posts.There is a lot of cheating going on and more.

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Thanks O ... I just read his posts <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> . The above posts I was just responding to this one.

yo, lip ... you should stay away from opposite sex and seek IC. Otherwise you will walk into the same path w/ different girl.

-rh-


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