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I am not sure but it think OM was at my home yesterday when i went to church with one of my daughters. My other daughter and infant son were home. My daughter that was home was very withdrawn and quiet yesterday when i came home from church.
Should i question daughter? if he was here then how do i deal with this to ww? This is completely an unacceptabel boundry and will push me over the edge.
I believe, that if this is the case that i have no alternative to seek immediate legal separation and file for custody. I cannot let this continue to hurt the children anymore.
This isnt about my ego...its about the children...
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I agree with you. Your children cannot be subjected to OM in your home. They should not be subjected to him at all.
I think you should talk to your daughter about it, not in a questioning way but in a way to get her to talk about what is bothering her. It is very very important to keep communication open with the children about what they are feeling. They need to know that you are their safe place, that you will always be there for them, and that you will always protect them.
As a mother I would do whatever I had to do to protect the emotional wellbeing of my daughter. You, your WW and your home are their entire universe and they need to know that atleast one of you is still stable and sane. And that no stranger is going to come into their home like that.
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Justa,
I also wanted to say that from your recent posts regarding your WW's behaviour at family gatherings and such, she is out of control and I think it is probably bothering the kids more than you know to witness their mother acting like a lunatic and starting these stupid fights.
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JaH- Was anyone(WW) else home? Why would OM come to your home. I would take this very seriously. I also agree with Weaver. You have to talk to your daughter. Make her feel safe. It is possible OM threatened her to not say anything. If OM was in your house uninvited I would look into filing charges to protect your children.
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Thanks....i will speak with my daughter...shes only 9 and she is upset....
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