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just found out that WW has second cell phone supplied and paid for by SIL. SIL knows full of the A and apparently doesnt care.

He is now actually facilitating the destruction of our family and adding to the grief experienced by my children (his grandchildren).

i dont understand the morals that some people have. i just dont get it. ...

im exhausted...my love bank is out....my hope is all but gone...my heart is broken

Thinking about plan b but she wont leave. claims to have no where to go....but yet her father has an empty apartment.

<small>[ September 27, 2004, 03:41 PM: Message edited by: Just a Husband ]</small>

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Stick with your plan and don't worry about her family aiding the affair. That is very common. The same thing happened to me.

I think the problem is that recovery will be that much harder because you have family members to forgive also.

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thanks...ill try

it all just seems so hopeless right now.....her anger amazes me......Any thing i do is wrong any little thing.....

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JH... if she's angry and she takes it out on you, it is probably because she knows she's wrong. WS's can justify their sin until they're blue in the face, but deep down inside they KNOW they are wrong.

Hang in there.


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