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My WW is having (I think still) an A right now. I am deployed with the army. It is wierd to think I would rather be shot at than have problems at home, but that is the way it is. Although I am not all that sure that the seperation was the main reason for her A, I think that it played its part. I do not think I would ever have been in this situation if I had stayed home. And, I agree, a person that assists someone to cheat on a deployed soldier is not worth the air they breathe.
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Hopingtofix -
I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. Do you have support where you are now? Do the Chaplins offer guidance? Is there a chance they will let you come home to salvage your marriage?
While I don't agree with the people who support the spouse that cheats on the deployed soldier...the same thing rings true to the "what happens on a deployment stay on a deployment" mentatility. We all need to hold each other accountable.
I'm sorry you have to go through this at this time. I'm sure you have trouble focusing on doing your job knowing all of this is going on back home.
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Hw,
I have posted my whole story under "nervous" if you have any advice, PLEASE let me know....I could use it.
I agree about the what goes on while deployed bs, it is disgusting that people do it, and I have seen many people that I never would have thought possible of such acts do some pretty dumb things. The military should be able to punish those people somehow. Not encourage it.
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