Hi Everyone.

I'm new to this site and have been looking in a few places for answers. I found out two weeks ago that my wife "doesn't know if she is in love with me" anymore.

I knew something has been up for a few months, but two weeks ago, I found her car parked in front of a co-workers house. She had spent the day over there.

She says that she started to talk to him about our relationship and that they have kissed a "few" times. I asked her not to see him outside of work. I think that she has done this, but they still talk on the phone quite a bit.

DivorceBusting.com suggests working on yourself and not bringing up the A at all. I don't feel that we can work on our problems if she is still talking to this guy. We have our second marriage counseling session this weekend and I'm going to bring this up. I'm afraid to push her away from him in case that will just keep her more interested in him. I'm also afraid to act like it doesn't bother me, because it DOES!!!

Any advice?