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My WW has been having a rough week at work. She's really stressed and I'm hoping what I did wasn't a LB. I am trying to work on Plan A right now.
I asked her this morning if she was going to meet with OM today. She got very upset and we talked about it a bit. She said that she knows that I have issues with trusting her after everything that's been done. She just feels under a lot of pressure.
I left her a letter this morning telling her that I want to work on our marriage and that I was more than willing to do that. But, I told her that I wanted her to stop talking to OM. I used "want" -- is this still a demand?
Is this all a big LB? Should I run back home and save the letter for another day?
Please help!!!
<small>[ October 01, 2004, 08:24 AM: Message edited by: rykon ]</small>
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Nope not an LB, that is setting your boundaries. Plan A does not involve letting the WS walk all over you. Setting boundaries is a key part of the plan.
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