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why wont they leave?
why wont they file?
why do they think BS is completely stupid?
why is BS on medication?

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Something called a conscience perhaps ???

Perhaps they know that it is not the right thing for them to do. So they will justify, rationalize, pick fights, LB whatever they can to give them 'reason' to do what their sinful nature guides them to do.

Yet there is this part of the human spirit that can't bring them to do it. Not until we give them reason to, so they felt that they really had no other choice....

So, they'll wait it out. They'll wait until we scream, cry, holler, loath, worry, threaten, etc etc until they 'know' that they are making the right decision.

Fog is too light a word. How about Black Hole ??

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Because they are addicts, completely lost to themselves <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

And they are troubled souls.


BS's are on medication because they have no "escape", they must deal with there feelings head on. BS's are also the ones who must take care of the children, the home, etc. so must keep a clear head.


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