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One of my good friends from work got married today. It was a nice wedding. The bride and groom looked great and it all brought back memories of my own wedding. I felt really happy for my friends but I felt so lonely being there without my wife. Since the beginning of all this mess with my WW's affair, my emotions have gotten all messed up. A grown man is not supposed to cry at weddings! Even after 15 months of separation, I still have many feelings for my WW. The wedding resurfaced many of those feelings. I don't know where I'm at any more in all this. Some days I don't think much about WW and others I can't stop thinking about her. Last night I even dreamed about her. Are there others out there that feel the same? Is there hope at this point? Am I holding on when I should be just letting go?..

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I think I will skip weddings for awhile. Sorry you missed your wife today.

After 21 months of this, I don't miss my WH at all. Hopefully you will get there too.


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