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#1192817 10/03/04 03:40 PM
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Is there a way to get cell phone records -I have a gut OW has called H recently .His bill shows outgoing calls- none to her- and want to see her call log . I know her info ,ss# ,dr. lisc., and just about anything else . Can a p.i. get those call logs ?
I hope H is being truthful that she hasn't called .I will give him BIG apology .

#1192818 10/03/04 03:48 PM
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You can get on the internet and open your H's account and you should be able to get incoming and outgoing calls that's how I did it.

HINY

#1192819 10/03/04 04:25 PM
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You probably have to know his passcode though. I was able to get some of my H online from Sprint but then he changed his passcode.
Good luck!

#1192820 10/03/04 05:27 PM
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I know his passcodes but verizon doesn't record incoming calls!! I want to know how to get OW logs- can a P.I. get it where I can't

#1192821 10/03/04 06:21 PM
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U shouldn't need a passcode. If you have identity info, it c/b possible. Do a google search and call the companies. Let them know you feel you and your family c/b in danger of a prank caller. Let them know it is on a cell phone and the cell company can't monitor incoming calls.
Reassure them that if you find out info for the police, you will forward it to them.

The other option c/b is to have a trace put on his cell so that the police is tracing all calls (incoming and outgoing).

You have to be in control of not letting the info you find get the best of you. This is info for you to know NOT use. If you do choose to use it, make sure you do so with legal advise. RE: If you ever have to disclose how you got this info, in some states, it c/b construed as an invasion of privacy. Could still be legal but the initial attack could do damage. WS and OPs love to threaten. Be prepared for a big backlash if you ever let it spill what you did.

Proceed cautiously.

JMHO,
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#1192822 10/04/04 12:11 AM
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Based on several years in the cell phone industry:
Cell bills only show the numbers called from the cell phone. Even though the phone's caller ID shows the number on an incoming call it does not show up on the bill. It's a privacy thing.

Most companies have a policy that info (bills, etc) can only be disclosed to persons listed in their computer as authorized on the account. The police, DA, etc. have to supoena account records in an investigation. Even if you're married to the account holder, unless you're listed in their computer as authorized on the account you can't get info. There is the off chance that you could run into a "newby" or an experienced rep that's not paying attention. But that person is risking job termination.

Sorry to throw a wrench into things, but want to save you the time & frustration of trying to get the information that way.

#1192823 10/04/04 01:23 AM
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Actually Nextel shows incoming calls now on their bills. Illegal but if you have all that information of hers, you could call the cell phone co and pretend to be her.. Wouldn't want to get caught doing it, but it's possible.

#1192824 10/04/04 06:20 AM
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Thanks for your advice . Don't want to use it in any way except to prove truth or lies !! As you all know ,fallout from the truth is far less that continued lies .Wish H would tell me the truth and if he is ,than I owe him a big apology and will joyfully give it . Need to know facts eat at my being and want to put this to bed
Thanks again


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