I am currently in Plan B, and have been only for 6 days. But it has been the hardest 6 days of my life.
He text messaged me two nights ago, asking if he could come home to sleep, but that he didn't want to talk that night. I text messaged him back to tell him that we need to work on somethings before that happens. We then chit chatted a little about other stuff, then I asked if he wanted to talk tomorrow (since his first text said, didn;t want to talk tonight). He wrote back and said, no because he was going to workout (which I know, if he really wanted to, he would have made an alternative plan). Then I asked if he had thought about things, he said yes and no. What does that mean? I told him he must still need some alone time.
I am not sure how much longer I can take of not talking to him, he is my best friend and I miss him so much. It is so lonely in this house, especially since everywhere I go I see a memory of us.
Is it okay to call him or text message him to ask if he wants to get together? Maybe for a nice date or to talk?

No!!! No contact means no contact. You should not be communicating with him except through a third party. This will ruin the effect of plan B. Sorry but he needs to miss you. He will not miss you if you continue to talk to him. WS needs to know first hand what it is like to REALLY lose you.

I would suggest you review the concepts on this site again. Use someone from your support group when you feel like you are going to give in to contact. And please put up your stats in your signature it will help others to better know your personal situation. Take care.

C.