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Niosgirl,
Are you trying to tell me something? I am getting the feeling you're not giving me the green light and waiving me on in here.

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Hey, parkem, your name does not begin with an "E", does it?

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maddyk - No it doesn't. Why do you ask??

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Lol, because I was trying to look at yahoo and see if you had a yahoo address....

did not want to come out and ask you your email in this particular thread, lest anyone get the wrong idea..lol

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by parkem1:
<strong> I'm pretty open minded and experimental, but a 2x4
might be pushing things a little.

Ok. I'll stop now. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"><img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> *falls off the chair and dies laughing* hahahahahahaha....

oh and jeff I was only worried about your quietness because I was afraid that mischevious mind was planning something wickedly naughty....

ooooh MHT used big words....speaking of riding gear...I was in petsmart the other day and walked past the horse section and saw training whips and thought of all of you....awwwww

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maddyk - where did it go?

<small>[ October 08, 2004, 04:43 PM: Message edited by: parkem1 ]</small>

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Boy this is a fun thread LOL. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Just saw it. I had a great sex life with XW. I was more attracted to her from head to toe than anyone. Sometimes I lay in bed thinking about it. So my advice would be DON'T THINK ABOUT IT if possible! It will drive you nuts! Self relief helps too. Did I just say that?

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juke...lol..ayuh...that's what all the battery talk is about...grin.

parkem, got it if you want to take it down...or leave it up, whatever you're comfortable with..

mht..lol..I think you're worse off than me!

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Juke - Yeah we have been having a good time with this one. This is what happens when a bunch of sexually deprived (or is it depraved??) people get together.

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I thought recovery was full of hot, sexy, steamy, spontaneous, ravishing, erotic and sometimes emotional SEX??? For me it's been BLAH>> W either forgets SF is a major EN for me or she just doesn't give a crap. I guess the fact I'm fulfilling one of her most important EN's Finances due to my high paying new job, she could care less to fullfil my needs. People I remember this feeling, it happened 10 years ago...blahh...maybe we just aren't compatible? This is ridiculous. I was fighting to save my M now I'm fighting to stay in my M? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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*you* may be depraved, parkem..talking about riding crops (whatever those are) and handcuffs...

me..I am not depraved...polishing my halo

merely deprived.

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FM..I'm sorry...(hugs)....

hopefully this will improve in time for you. You're early in recovery, right? I think people react different to marital stress.

after I found out about my husband's, A..I could not get enough sex. I don't know if I was using it as a means to keep him interested in me or what. Other people cannot stand the thought of their WS touching them.

I'm not sure how it would be for a WW.

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I have something else that needs to be polished when you're done with that halo...was that out loud!? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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Sorry, bub, I don't do silver or windows.

sheesh...one of the problems in my marriage was lack of domestic support on my side (i'm a horrible housekeeper)..

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by maddyk:
<strong> FM..I'm sorry...(hugs)....

hopefully this will improve in time for you. You're early in recovery, right? I think people react different to marital stress.

after I found out about my husband's, A..I could not get enough sex. I don't know if I was using it as a means to keep him interested in me or what. Other people cannot stand the thought of their WS touching them.

I'm not sure how it would be for a WW. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm not sure how it is for a WW either, but I can tell you this is the last thing I expected. You would think the person who stomped on your heart would be over-compensating for the pain they caused...instead my W is under-compensating while I do all the cooking, most of the cleaning...blahhh. I don't know how much of this garbage I can take. Don't worry I will not disgrace my M further, but that doesn't mean I'll put up with being UNhappy anymore to suit the greater good. I see the end of my rope and it's right about...

<small>[ October 08, 2004, 08:00 PM: Message edited by: FamilyMatters ]</small>

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I am a great housekeeper. I put on my little french maid outfit and.....oops TMI.

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Keep it going guys. This is fun. Maddy - how about a change of name to MadamK. I think you've got a following!

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by maddyk:
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mht..lol..I think you're worse off than me! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You have no Idea.....*whimpers pitifully*
The thought that he just doesn't want me anymore and traded me up for a better modle (though older) it stings....and wanting him this badly....*sigh*

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> *you* may be depraved, parkem..talking about riding crops (whatever those are) and handcuffs...
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">OMG...can you say WHIP....and ridem hard...like the phrase cowboy up *evil grin*

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I am a great housekeeper. I put on my little french maid outfit and.....oops TMI.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">hahaha I would pay to see that hahahaha

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OK....as if this thread wasn't enough....WH just came over to drop off some diapers....OMG he said a few words to the baby didn't pick him up...but then he gave me this long lingering hug hands lingering and before it ended he pulled back and we looked into each others eyes....OMG I have never wanted him more than that moment....I swear this is soooo much torture.....someone put me out of my misery before I explode

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Maddy- I have a halo, too. My horns hold it in place.

DJ - Sorry. I'm sure you have a nice.......um.....pickup.....but, you know, can't even go there right now.......

- Kimmy

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