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I am looking for different opinions. I suspected my W having an A and looked through emails. I confronted her with evidence that was not that strong and she was furious. She stopped emailing and only contacted the OW over the phone. I cannot listen to cell calls but I have recorded VERY revealing conversations about the A. How do I confront her with this evidence without starting a fight that may lead to divorce? She is definitely sexually involved and the A is very new, so I know the feelings are very strong. I kinda feel justified with the need to find the truth so I may salvage our M and family (2 kids). Any suggestions? Is what I did wrong? I would not have found out for sure any other way. Should I confront her now?
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Stumped soul. Try to keep to one thread so that your story will stay intact. It looks like all the experts are over at your other thread. It will make it easier to help you if you do this. Also post your stats so experts and lurkers will know a little more about your situation. With a that said. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Have you read all the basic concepts on this site? Do you have the books Surviving and Affair and His needs Her needs? If you still want an answer to your question copy it into your other thread where the experts are at. Take care and keep posting. C.
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Thanks shmaley, I have done that...
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