I need some advice on the a situation. WW was in EA with an ex in her home state. We decided to work on the M and she has said NC with the OM. I have no proof of a final goodbye, but have been monitoring her cell phone and email and there has been nothing for over 2 weeks. I have yet to ask for a NC letter. We talked the other night and both agreed we had a good two weeks together. I have been trying to meet her EN's and giving, giving, giving. Things are better, but I am still afraid. She is reluctant to continue MC.

She is also going back to her home state (very near OM) for family time and a friend's wedding. Also taking our 2.5 D. This has been planned much before D-day. No problem before, now I am worried. My MIL is on board with me about NC when WW is gone. I have already stated to WW that I want to go to wedding; a husband needs to be with W at a wedding. She wants to use it as girl time with her friends. OK, but I am afraid of the other week she is at home very near OM. OM is not married and has never given her up. I am going to send OM a respectful email telling him to not contact WW anymore, we are working on our M. Not sure if this will deter him or not.

Should I ask to go with her for part of the trip? Should I insist our D stays here? Should I trust her and just let her go? We have made much progress, but I am still worried. Thanks,

Jmash