Hi All,

If anyone has not read about the mess I'm in, it is under "Nervous" in this forum(sorry, never quite figured out yet how to post a link).

But to sum it up, I am deployed, and my W is having an A. She has served me with D papers, when I went back home in Aug, but could not proceed due to my deployment. I am considering seriously going back home to try and work things out, and my question is,
DO I TELL HER I AM COMING? I have made it very clear to WW that I would come home if she wanted me to, but she has never once mentioned it. I think that I cannot do a good plan A, or B where I am at, so I think it is worth the chance to go home.
I get to call her tommorrow, is it even worth talking to her about it? Or is it better to not mention our relationship at all? Anyone who has been following this, please give me your opinions! Thanks