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#1194556 10/07/04 01:33 PM
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Haven't gotten a lot of responses lately, but it still helps me to write on here. Today is day 3 of N/C & my emotions are on a rollercoaster ride. I keep reading other posts & it helps me to see things from the BS's point of view...I just read Noodle's post & it hit me to realize that my relationship caused people to feel that way. How can I cause such pain to another human being? I've been so focused on the pain that I caused in my own heart/life that it's clouded any compassion for anyone else. I'm sorry. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

#1194557 10/07/04 01:58 PM
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Keep posting..you will get some good advice.

I aplaud you for admitting that you were wrong and caused innocent people pain. That is the first step. I am a BS. My H is filing for DV. I have been through a lot in the last few months but each day gets better and I get stronger. Hang in there and things will wokr out for you.
Good luck!

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I am trying to prepare myself for when I get to plan B and reading others posts always helps. I do not even know how to approach the situation because I have a feeling WH will try to contact me after letter has been delivered and I am not sure I will have the strenght to stay away. Good luck. Love


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