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Ran into a roadblock with my exposure letter, suggestions?
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I had sent an exposure letter to OMs parents, I knew their address, but it would seem that they have moved. I sent it certified, and it is showing as 'undeliverable'
I have no idea of their names, just the OMs name. Except for hiring a P.I., I have no clue as to how to find them.
Has anyone ran into something like this or does anyone have any suggestions?
Re: Ran into a roadblock with my exposure letter, suggestions?
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I paid a company to do a cross reference address search from a cell phone number. I then got his license plate number. Once I got that, I contacted a friend in the insurance business. They can punch up names and pull all sorts of information on people in almost any city across the country. Their computers are advanced and they helped me trace the OM to his parents one state away.

I then called and asked them to help me get their son to back away from my wife. The parents defended their son and blamed my wife 100% for the affair. That caused the OM to become a big shot in front of my wife showing her he was actually a selfish person, which she never saw before. That was the beginning of the end of the relationship. I hope that helps.

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One thing I have to go on, I know OM is involved in a custody case with his W that he is divorcing. That particular state doesn't have it's records online. I would love to track down his STBxW and talk to her as well..
I don't even know the county the proceedings are taking place....

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