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I am very ready to be divorced it is just really hard. My H has continued an EA since Jan while I was pregnant. My son is now 8 weeks old. I am so happy with my life but for some reason am really sad. I just hurt for my son knowing he will never have his dad like he should. I am dreading the actual date.

Any advice for the actual day?

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Durham,

You are going to get through it just like you have gotten through everything thus far.

I am so glad to hear you and baby boy are doing well.

Make sure that your sons little heart is always filled up with all the love you have for him, and he will be fine too.

He has a dad and hopefully dad will be a good dad even if he is blinded by his fog.

And no it is not ideal that his parents are not together but atleast he won't grow up in a household where his mom is suffering from his dad's continued infidelity. Be thankful it happened before he was born and not when he was older, your son has been spared the devastation and destruction of having his whole world shattered.

Glad to see your post Durham, I was wondering about you.

Weaver


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