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Just got off the phone with my husband. We were having a great conversation and all of a sudden it went south.
I asked him if he was worried about tommorrow? He said no he only worries about today. I asked him if he was not worried that I might wake up in the morning and tell him I did not love him anymre. He said no. I said he would be worried if he were in my shoes.
I told him I am scared to death and walked on eggshells everyday. He said he had ask for my forgiveness and God's and there was nothing else he could do. He said I could not worry about it everyday.
He has been peferct in trying to put our marriage back together. I can not ask for anything more. Am I going to destory this relationship by being scared and worried all the time?
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Being scared and worry all the time is part of what we go through. It is hard to heal overnight. The trust needs to be build bit by bit again. It is not easy not worrying or feeling scared. It is normal.
I am not sure at what stage of the process are you right now with your Husband. In my stage I will try to avoid mentioning my feelings of worry and insecurity at the time to let things work on their own. My WH will just feel that anything he does will not work and just want to throw the towel on trying.
come here and vent as much as you want and hang in there. If he is trying to do better just avoid touchy conversations for now. Give him the chance to prove he is doing better.
good luck, Love
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All I can say is that I know the feeling....it just doesn't go away.
about waking up one day and telling your H that you don't love him anymore.......I think that is something we say out of desperation to get them to really think of what they have done to us..
At least that is why I've said that.
Just hang in there....were suppose to let God handle it ...at least I keep telling myself that!
Lori
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