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I'm Busted
#11970 09/17/99 10:47 PM
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I have a question for you. Is it a LB to be on this forum when your W knows you are ,but has no interest?<P>My W has been reading this forum for quite some time and she still will not tell me where i have failed her.<P>DEB:<BR>Some of God's greatest gifts are unansweredPrayers!!!!!!!!
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#11971 09/17/99 10:56 PM
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first, I don't think it should be a love buster for you to be here, you have to have somewhere to vent, and some support, or your head will explode, and that is VERY messy.<P>second, yes they are, but what unanswered prayer are we talking about ? <P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>
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#11972 09/17/99 11:55 PM
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Hey dj...better to take your frustrations and anger / saddness out by venting here, where we all understand the pain you are going through - from both sides, with people who want change, than to take it out on your W. Sometimes clarifies things for me, being here, and so I don't act as irrationally as I might without the same support. Sort of helps think things through, talking with others who can give insight. I think my H should thank me for being here, because I might do some unforgivable things otherwise!!!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]
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#11973 09/17/99 11:58 PM
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Why would it be a love buster to try to help your marriage? I don't see the correlation here. Why is everyone trying to hard to seek affirmation from their cheating spouse, when they have done no wrong??
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#11974 09/18/99 07:13 AM
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Bozos_ Deb,<P>I guess I was just hoping she would read some of my posts and discuss them with me. She has and still won't. I suppose you can hope all you want!

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