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Hi K,

I haven't got much time but I did want to ask, did he mention the note you put into his truck????

Does him singing the song "Honesty" have anything to do with the note????

I do think he is going through "Withdrawel" so try not to take his reactions too personal.
He's "suffering" and I'm sure he will get out of that within time.

Just try not to be too clingy...........Stick to Plan A............

Ok, I have to go..........take care

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bb

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Hi bb.....

Yes, he did mention the note. He asked when I put it in his car. But that was it.

The thing that bothers me the most is that most of the time, he seems okay. Like nothing is really going on.

Last night was really the only thing that he has said about anything. I'm hoping he is in withdrawl, and not still in contact with OW. We have talked about this process before.

I'm not being clingy at all. I don't tell him I love him at all, unless he says it first. Last night, after SF, he didn't say anything, just went to sleep (it WAS late).

I plan on just being here for him, and not talking about anything R or A related (this is killing me - not to be able to express my feelings, or ask questions). But I do plan on giving him more notes.....any more suggestions?

K

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