Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11 |
<small>[ October 19, 2004, 07:56 PM: Message edited by: veteran ]</small>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Mar 2004
Posts: 338
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Mar 2004
Posts: 338 |
Try reading "surviving an Affair" together. It will help to impress on her the need for No contact. It will also give u other great ideas <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11 |
<small>[ October 19, 2004, 12:09 PM: Message edited by: veteran ]</small>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: May 2002
Posts: 2,166
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: May 2002
Posts: 2,166 |
When there is continued contact, the affair continues - even if it is no longer physical. Click on the link in my signature line, and start in Plan A.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11 |
<small>[ October 19, 2004, 07:47 PM: Message edited by: veteran ]</small>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069 |
Yep. Why were you "lukewarm" with your wife? Just curious.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11 |
<small>[ October 19, 2004, 07:51 PM: Message edited by: veteran ]</small>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Aug 2004
Posts: 339
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Aug 2004
Posts: 339 |
Are you guys going to any MC? If she refuses then you can IC. Once she sees that you are going to do it with or without her she might warm up to it. I'm going to a ST alone <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> right now. One other thing....since your WW works with the OW she will Obviously have to quit the job to implement NC. No choice here. Unless she could plant some WMD's in OW desk and get her fired. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> C.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11 |
<small>[ October 19, 2004, 07:48 PM: Message edited by: veteran ]</small>
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Sep 2003
Posts: 27,069 |
I would ignore the outsiders in your marriage. As long as you are showing your wife that you love her and will meet her needs, things will be okay.
Are you spending 15 hours a week with your wife doing pleasant things? That is part of the MB plan.
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 11 |
<small>[ October 19, 2004, 07:49 PM: Message edited by: veteran ]</small>
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
1,100
guests, and
68
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,624
Posts2,323,520
Members72,026
| |
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
