WW is still in house with me in her long process to move her stuff to her apt. She did this the last time with the kids today,Om wasn't there thank goodness! So ww asked if i wanted to meet them at TGIF for dinner. While waiting for our table outside we where watching our kids playing around, and i have got my WW just looking down in the ground in deep thought, or looking into space like in deep thought. I have caught her doing this before, usually when family together and having a good time. Could this be her conscious wrestling with her heart? One time last week at my son football game i caught her out of the corner of my eye doing the same look. Looking down at the ground like in deep thought. I had asked her later that day what she was thinking about and she said she was thinking how nice it was to have us her parents all at the game talking with each other. Then went on to say this is how i want it when i move out. I kind of just rolled my eyes in another direction so she couldn't see.
Anyone think WW conscious is starting to bother her?
jets

I wouldn't count on her conscience bothering her too much. Most WS's are in complete denial. They think that their actions aren't hurting the kids at all. That is how they can keep doing what they are doing.

It is strange how much they are all alike. Your best shot is to try to enjoy life and take care of yourself. Hopefully she will come out of the fog.

Thanks Believer,
But why does she keep doing that, looking off into space in deep thought? What could she be thinking about? OM?
jets

Who knows? When they are fogged out, they are not thinking right. My WH's OW says the most important thing in her life is her 12 year old daughter. But she is living with my husband and has all but abandoned her little girl.

Hi jets,

Try not to focus on what your WW is thinking.With a WS it could be anything from what's for dinner to when will I next meet the homewrecking OP.Like believer said,if you are banking on a momentary guilt check,I highly doubt it.It sounds to me like she wants to have what my WH wants: a nice little cake friendship with me in front of the kids and for himself and the homewrecking trash as his main supplier.

Not in my book.

O

<small>[ October 17, 2004, 08:54 PM: Message edited by: Octobergirl ]</small>

I agree don't try to analyse too much. It's not worth it. Even if you had a direct link to her fogged out brain the contents would only change tomorrow. So what's the point. Crappy isn't it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

C.