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baby,
you are better than that. I don't think that you should even be a part of this whole silly fiasco. What they are doing to you is playing some horrible mind game, what with all the bible talk and all. I'm not very religious, but let me tell you, anyone who uses God's word to make their sins look good needs to be on some strong medication.

When my H and I decided to break up, OW called me to find out "how to take care of him". I told her to **** off. That was their business. I was going to take care of myself. If H wanted to be with me, he had to BE with me. But I now can take care of myself.

Now that H is home and we've been in recovery, he said that he was psychotic. Goes to show what that "fog" can do. I don't know where your H is or what you both have planned, or where the OW stands in your life, but you need to be in MC if you intend on patching things up, even if there is still isn't NC. And this sort of high school stupidness has to stop. You are all adults. She and your H need to grow up.

<small>[ October 18, 2004, 11:16 AM: Message edited by: swimming upstream ]</small>

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unfortunatly he won't go to MC to work on our marriage......and when we were in C we had a C that was pushing us towards divorce....i haven't responded or even read the email...and I will not.....because simple she doesn't deserve a response......because if she truly wanted to "make things right" with me...she would get the hell away from my husband and never EVER contact him again...

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