I feel as though there is importance in coming here and sharing our stories, reading others, and giving some advice from experience. I find it exceptionally hard to come here though. I get flash backs and it seems as though it is all about the hard stuff, the really bad stuff, and it seems as though it is shunned to make any light hearted posts in the infidelity section. I know there are other sections, but those in our situation is truelly a group bound together through tragedy. It is hard to connect with people on a close level who havent been there, at least for me. I wish there was a place to sit and talk to others in like experience without always having to talk about the hard stuff.

The thing is I'm already so down, I come here and participate but it gives me flash backs and it really disterbs me when some of the women here let there h who had A and some who had OC from those A, and those mostly women who should be safe guarding thier marriages are letting thier husbands get away with murder, and for some letting the ws make them feel inferior. I have been there and done that and it makes me sick to my stomache that I put up with that for even the short time that I did. Oh just a little rant.

As I said above though it would be nice to chat here with others about lighter things.

Hmmmm...

Are you really blue smurfgirl? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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C.

took me a second there

funny funny

lol

Sheesh, I haven't been logged in for 10 days but this brought me out of hiding.

How can you have missed our 3000+ Jelly thread. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Jen

Don't know, lol, but I was here for about two weeks. I found that it was getting me way too upset so I left for awhile, at least two weeks and just got around to coming back today.