My FWS has a friendship with a woman at work that has been going on for about 8 years. he says it's nothing romantic or sexual. Before his EA, I never questioned it. Recently he has been talking about his friend. She seems to think it's ok to keep talk with my H about her lousy marriage. She not leaving to be able to get all of his money when he dies. Men in is family don't live that long. I told him realized he felt sorry for her for this marriage, but she is the one who is choosing to stay. She could afford to leave him and all of her kids are grown. So she should either work on her marriage, or stop talking with my h.

I told my h that this was inappropriate behavior on her part. Married women do not confide in married men. it opens a door other stuff. Esp. when my h did have an EA with a former co-worker. He thinks it ok since he doesn't have romatic feelings. I don't and it has upset me greatly. I lb'ed big time this morning, and brought up the EA and called the other woman a b!tch and that I will not go through this crap again. he was mad said he didn't like me to keep throwing this up in his face.

I didn't behave in the manner I should, but her behavior IS inappropriate at the office, and he needs to let her know she is crossing the line. I need for his to set up boundariew with ALL women.