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How you doin' dlc?

-ol' 2long
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Good question. How am I doing? I still have a job (though they are still vague about the final result) I still miss my WxW and she is still in the fog. My boys are adjusting, albeit the older one is still confused as to why Mommy and Daddy aren't together.

I'm coping 2long. It seems like forever, but it's only been months. I'm waiting for my own fog of sadness to clear. Meanwhile I'm trying to make a life worth living....

I read these posts and want to scream to these WS's and BS's "Don't give up!" I've seen too many M's disintegrate for NOTHING. The fog clears and the land is littered with regrets, sorrow and bewildered children. I'm coming to terms with loving from a distance and being open to all possibilities without waiting on dreams. I wish more people really believed that any relationship can be healed and that the right things are not always the easy things.

dlc:

Thanks for dropping in.

I hope that things continue 2 improve for you, and that your xW wakes up someday. Are she and the OM just shacking up? Or are they getting Md?

Ew!

-ol' 2long

dlc, I've been thinking about you. It's good to hear you're still on your feet, my man.

GC

The OM is still in DC. Apparently, he's still working on coming down, maybe in Feb. or March 2005. WxW says she'll never marry again, so shacking is the option there. I rarely talk to her (it's hard), but she still claims that the fun she's having with OM was worth disrupting our family (that fog talk makes it easier to stay dark).

Guys, I wish I were more angry or at least more detached. Missing her is hard. Time will heal. Time will tell.