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Im married to a man that argues with everything I say, He tell me I not teaching my sons 17/19 to be men. and tells me I find fault with everything he says. weve been in counseling since feb. nothing seems to help its always me I told him he he had the problem and he got real mad. This is not normal am I really at fault please help im desprete
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Do you find fault with everything he says? Do you treat him with respect?
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not always but sometimes when he is down on my sons I get very defensive.
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I had agreat deal of respect for him up intill 6 months ago I just feel that the way he wants to do things is a sole decision and I feel like Im suppose to be a part of him and him a part of me he wants everything seperate
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But do you treat him with respect? What is his complaint about you? How long married?
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<small>[ October 20, 2004, 07:31 PM: Message edited by: mrsdiabetic ]</small>
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Yes I respect him I just dont agree with him always wanting to be incontrol of everything and everyone. If I say something he picks one word i said and said he know what I really mean and thats not so things are getting twisted. We been married for almost 3 years and I left in June I had to leave before I went nuts. I have a problem with my hands because of my diabetes and have pain meds I only take when I cant stand it basically once in a few months I went to get one and the bottle was empty he admitted to taking the whole 75 pills said he did it cause my kids stressed him out he has not been the same since. I realize I can be at fault and Im able to admit it but he thinks everything is mine fault
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