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I'm not sure if this is the appropriate place to post this question, but I've been looking for a topic and this is the closest I've found.

My H has had an affair (for 2 years!) with another woman which I recently found out about. He is in love with her and this has pretty much destroyed a 21 year marriage (among other lies).

I now know about it, but the OW's husband does not. Do I contact him and tell him? I must admit, I am very tempted to do so, call it vengence if you wish. I have his address and phone number, and I actually called it one day but no one answered.

Truth be told, I want her marriage to suffer as much as mine has over the past 6 months. My marriage is ending, four children, 21 years, no future together.

Has anyone thought this through? I need some advice on this please.

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We cannot change the direction of the wind ... but we can adjust our sails.


Rosie,

I started a new thread for you so you could get some feedback. Afraid it would be overlooked where it was.

Weaver

<small>[ October 20, 2004, 06:26 PM: Message edited by: weaver ]</small>