I did read that you had a EA (Emotional Affair?)

That is what my W also had. I hope. She and the OM fell in love and admitted this to each other. He suggested that they leave their spouses and take the relationship futher, but she said that she told him that she loved me and the kids to much.

Now my question, Could this only have been an EA, and if the OM wife did not told me, would the EA have turned into something else? Also, why did my W keep the whole thing secret?

And last question, how did your H handle it. I find it hell to except that my W fell in love with someone else.

Please advice?