ok guys me and my H had split up over a year ago becuse of his affair. during our split up he came out of fog and we got back togehter. we made a lot o mistakes when we got back together i think we assumed it would be great. when we firstg got back to gether he was sweet romantic but soon after that i found out about some contact. then i gotr parinoid i think i pushed him away. now i dont know what to do im about 90 percent sure there is soem form of contact with them i dont know about physical but i'm sure there is emotinal. i wnat my husband and marriage. but i'm kinda resenting all the changes he said he'd make when he came back and never did. now things are starting to change for the worse liek when the affair started. (like hes not calling home from work etc). i wanted to write him a leter and tell him i want him to call home i lve him we need to make it work etcd... but dotn think that will help. i also want to do plan a an di've read everything i could find about plan a but just dont know how to do it very well. he swears he is not involved with other women. so its not like i can do plan a with the intention of breaking them up he swears shes out of the picfture. i want to save my marriage please help