Mac
Please don't think that I am being unrealistic. I know that a 3 year EA without a PA should be impossible. I've asked WW a lot of questions regarding a PA, but she is standing her ground. WW says no, it never went that direction. I continue to moniter her activities and have come up with nothing that would indicate the EA (or PA) is ongoing. I plan to continue checking up on her, for now, and hope my plan A continues to work. Our relationship has actually been great post DDay. Today is 8 weeks since DDay. I have yet to see any sign of withdrawl from my WW. We talk about the A often and go to MC weekly.

I know that the possibility exhists that she is continuing her deception and lies. I'm not over the hurt and won't forget. I honestly do not know how I would deal with her admitting to a PA. I've treated her with love and compassion, including the initial confrontation. If a PA happened, I don't know that she will ever tell me, if it didn't happen, she can't tell me. What a quandary. I will forge on to rebuild my marriage and my relationship with my W so this can't happen again.

And then again I may be way out in left field.