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Mimi...is that you?
I've wondered how you've been? I hope that things are going well in Recovery.
Last I knew...H was home....reestablishing a relationship w/17 yr. old S going slowly but moving forward.
Not sure if I was "Learnin" when you disappeared off the charts....I lurk mostly now. Spend time over at saveyourmarriagecentral.com. I do some stuff there to promote Marriage Fidelity Day.
WH still fogbound. D process moving forward. Kids coping but painful. 17 yr. old S does not even speak to WH....younger ones have mimimal contact.
Still wish it could have turned out differently. But I did my best and continue to move forward. One step, one day at a time!
Glad to see you here!
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Hi Shugah:
I knew you by both names.
Sounds like you are doing great despite the outcome with your WH.
I'm struggling through Recovery. I had to stay away from here in order to not stay consumed in memories about the A and to focus on my current relationship.
My FWH is truly repentant, is very much in love with me. It feels good. However, I still have my moments. It was such a devastating experience.. a real tragedy. I continue to have nightmares about the bad experiences.
I have come out of this as a much stronger person.
My FWH and son continue to struggle with each other. The majority of my son's issues have to do with adolescence. The A only escalated those problems. He's away at college now but tries to test the limits when he comes home on weekends.
Take Care. Good to hear from you.
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