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ML,

Again ML,

Your record is there for all to see.

Keep up to good work, I can hardly wait to see what gems you next present.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Comfortably Numb:
<strong> ML,

Again ML,

Your record is there for all to see.

Keep up to good work, I can hardly wait to see what gems you next present. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">And all the world can see that you can't back up a word you say. It is nothing more than slanderous gossip and an unfounded cheap shot, CN, and you know it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

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In my not-so-humble-opinion, I think that this flamewar would best be fought out in another thread, email, or anything other than here. The issue at hand is about dreamcatcher and her H.

I'm sure glad that nothing like this erupted on any of MY threads, you know, where I was seeking help for my situation...it may have turned me off from getting help and support from here...

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Dimmu,

i doubt DC is reading this thread anymore. and i think that is smart. this thread is of no use to anyone now. at least no productive use.

i started a new thread called dreamcatcher. actually i think there is at least one other person that did the same thing. DC happened to post in mine, so she is still reading. you might want to post there instead of here.

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FinallyLearning,

Thank you for pointing that out, I shall check the new thread out immediately. Hopefully there, she can get the support she needs, to heal her M!

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Well thank-you so much noddle and I guess Melodylane, i am new to MB and have been in recovery with my dear husband just over 3 years, i have been reading on mb for all of those 3 years and healing my marriage, but started going thru a rough time with feelings of guilt and selfloathing for my affair, just recently feeling like anything bad that happened in our life was my fault and feeling like i was still being judged and so on, some wonderful people on here turned that around for me with just a few posts and i was feeling better about myself and finally finding my way back to my Lord Jesus but darn it you have made me feel like what i was thinking about myself is right, i will never be forgiven, never be looked upon as anything other than the scum of the earth! why did you have to do that??

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JEC, only you can decide how you feel about yourself. You can't blame others for your choices. Give me a break...

<small>[ November 01, 2004, 05:47 PM: Message edited by: MelodyLane ]</small>

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DC,
You have done the most courageous thing I can imagine. I am sure we all honor you for your convictions.

As a BS, I can tell you that he is going through worse than hell right now. That is where Noodle was coming from. Only the BS's can fully appreciate her post.

She describes the BS's pain/agony as well as anyone. The alegory (s) (metaphor?) used are lost on many and the righteous charge in to smite her.

A grain of salt, please, people!!

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