What a turn around..... The W and I agreed three weeks ago she would move out yesterday. My dad wdidn't make plane reservations till my W had left. W said she didn't have the money for an apt., so she would stay at the OP while OP was out of town. Now she is unsure that she still wants a divorce. I will not entertain any thoughts of reconcilliation if she stays at OP place. <BR>I've offered to send her to friend's or parents or wherever, but she doesn't want to go. What do we tell the kids is going on while she is staying at hotel during my dad's visit? If we were going to divorce, no problem. But right now she doesn't know ......Ahh what tangled webs we weave....<BR>Mike<BR>