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My husband took me for a ride on the beach to watch the sun go down and then moon come up. We also parked and watched the ocean and made love. It was beautiful!!! He has been the perfect husband, doing everything right.
Before we left we had a talk about me leting go of this A he had. How it was going to ruin our marriage if I did not. We would go our seperate ways and try to be friends.
I realized when I got home that all I will or cannot ever let it go. Even after our wonderful ride. I still got into the shower thinking about his sex with her. I feel as if a part of me has died. The OW will always be lurking in my mind.
My husband told me about his affair on his own. He is a good christian man. I did not ask him to come home. He decided he wanted to come home on his own. He did go thru about 3 weeks of withdrawal. But I beleive he really loves me and wants to make it work.
Why can I not get past this? She is the winner even if she does not have my husband. They destroyed me together.
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No you are wrong. You can get over this. Keep reading and posting here. As time goes on things will get much better.
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