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MIF;
I applaud you for doing this. EXPOSURE IS IMPORTANT. The wise posters of this baord KNOW what they are talking about with this. You can do Plan A or B or whatever, BUT exposing the affair is the surest way to end it (IMO). Goo dluck please keep us updated.
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MIF?, you did what you thought was right. I admire your courage! I admit I've wanted to tell my H's parents what he's done, just because they think he's so perfect, but since his A is so old, I don't suppose it's something I should do.
At any rate, hang in there -- I just wanted to respond, as you have been kind enough to do the same for me.
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God this is so hard. I feel like I've thrown away the last 10 years of my life. She is still on the phone w/ OM as I type this telling him what has happened tonight. I really feel like my M is over. This sucks. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
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THIS IS going to be hard for you. By exposing this affair, you face the possibility that your marriage will end....BUT history dictates that the chances of the affair ending are greater than your marriage ENDING over this. If you want this marriage, you have to realize that you are in for a long, tough emotional time. Buckle up and get ready. The posters on this board have laid what they think is the plan to get your marriage back. If you want yor unfiathful wife back and are willing to go thrrough all of the struggles that this entails, you are in the right place. Good luck.
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Thanks for the words of encouragement. I guess I will just have to wait it out and see. I have an IC appointment Monday and after that we were supposed to go back together. I will set up an appt. for the two of us and see if she will go.
From our conversation tonight neither of us will be leaving the house, so plan B is out of the question.
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