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Blah Blah very personal from Jen !
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
You know Jen that occurred to me too. Well, Most of our SF now is fantastic and even the less fantastic ones are loving and giggly ! (sf for the previous year or two had been pretty dull).
FWWs attachment was very emotional too. I am discovering a strong EA existed for up to a year before PA took place.
She's being hit hard right now Jen, feeling very unworthy and guilty. I have to keep watching and loving to make sure she doesn't fall too low.
We had a really bad trigger the other day that I can only just post about - I received a brochure from France through the post addressed to "Mrs & Mrs Pure" from the HQ of the cheap motel chain they used to hump in near my home.
I said to FWW that it was really low rent for her to use not only my money but my name to book their affair venue. This hit her hard.
After sobbing for a while she told me that although it didn;t make it better for me, HE booked the hotel. Soul mate, love of her life, decent lovely man used HER name and address to guarantee no sh1t went home to soil his nest.....
That led to a day of holding and crying and apologizing from both of us. A huge day really, but she's ben really down since then.
Poor girl. My turn for feeling existentially cr@p has been and gone, it looks like my baby's turn now.
Any avice for me Jen? What can I do to help her other than love her, be there for her and try to keep her chin up ?
Thanks again jen !
{{{{jen}}}}
<small>[ October 29, 2004, 03:01 AM: Message edited by: Bob Pure ]</small>
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Sheesh, Bob, I posted on Jelly so I wouldn't draw any undue attention to myself. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> DD has just arrived home and is moving out to her new apartment tomorrow and is being a general pain in the a*** about me not helping her pack so that's what I guess I now have to go and do. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> But, rest assured, I will give your post some thought and reply as soon as I have some more time. Jen
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^bump^ Jen, email me if better * la la la la la * <-email removed ! Soz, broke a rule ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> <small>[ October 30, 2004, 01:17 AM: Message edited by: Bob Pure ]</small>
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Bob, against all MB rules you know - emailing people of the opposite gender. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> I don't mind replying at all. You know sometimes I wonder why I keep coming back to MB. Life is so normal now but I just LOVE the people. </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Any avice for me Jen? What can I do to help her other than love her, be there for her and try to keep her chin up ? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well, that would be my advice. I know I've told you we've had some incredibly bad times during recovery. We nearly split up in April because I just COULD NOT get over the OM. But, when reality hits and you realise what you have, what you nearly lost and what a JERK the OM was and how much you love your spouse, it all comes clear. Boy, would I love to talk with Mrs Pure. I used to say to cwmac that I would love to talk with his w. Their sitch was very similar to ours and your w is just SO textbook WS. They've been handing out the alien textbook a lot lately. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> BTW we have a Geordie friend visiting here in February. He offered to kneecap OM for my H. LOL. He actually left me a very nasty voicemail just after he found about us and was extremely upset when he found out how upset I was by it. He's a very cool guy and very into blues (like my H) and we're looking forward to seeing him. Apparently, Newcastle is the blues capital of the UK. Anyway, you're doing fine Bob, you will make it you know. My H said he never doubted for a minute that I'd be "back". I probably will e-mail you. EVERYBODY, no evil intent. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> Jen
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Soz Jen, didn't know about the mail rules * blush * I'll shift my address outta the post. Re talking to Mrs pure...well...someday.....that might be a lovely idea. When FWW is up to it. Thanks Jen : Geordie blerks don't normally get such great chicks ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> {{{{jen}}}}
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He he, that's what my H says *blush*.
He actually said once that he only went out with the "classy" girls up north, the ones with ponies etc. You will know what that means. LOL.
His dad worked in the shipyard (duh, didn't everyone if they weren't down a mine) and they were wonderful, wonderful in laws. I miss them all the time.
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(TAG! You're it!) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
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No fair ! No fair ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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sheeesh, don't you silly foreigners ever go to bed at a decent hour???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by MelodyLane: <strong> sheeesh, don't you silly foreigners ever go to bed at a decent hour???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Who says we Americans are geographically challenged? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />
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ML I was up all night having m'hair biggened. Can't be behind the fash'n curve just 'cos I'm a Brit and a man !! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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