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Hi everybody.
My husbund and I have been up and down since he discovered I cheated on him (found out last june)He doesn´t believe at all my version it doesn´t matter how hard I tried to tell him that it is the truth. He is taking prozac but doesn´t seem to help.
He can have a wonderful week and then he turns into Frankestein in seconds and live in hell for another week (and also the hole family).
I woul like to know for the ones of you that have been betrayed for your wives if it WOULD BE A GOOD IDEA TO LET HIM GO VISIT HIS FAMILY( we are not in the States). They are very religious and his family doesn´t know anything about it yet.
I am afraid that he wont came back or that he will start drinking too much
Please advise me.
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Joined: Apr 2001
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Well, isn't he a grown up who can make this decision all on his own?
I think it's a great idea for him to visit his family when he most needs their support and I would encourage that. Especially if they are religious people. That is what family is for, to support each other.
If he doesn't want to come back or starts drinking, that will be his choice as a free man.
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