I tried contacting that person you suggested. She got back to me the first day with a few questions, but nothing since. Any thoughts???

Also what was the other place you wanted me to go look at?

Hi KMEJ, have you replied to her questions already? Penny is one of the "big guns" in the recovery arena so she's BUSY! She hasn't gotten back to me on something either but don't worry she will when she can. She posts here under the name Cerri if you want to look at some of her threads, I think there is one on EN or Recovery right now. Her site is SYMC , Save Your Marriage Central, do check it out. Did you have a chance read her bio yet?

If you want to get back to some of your old threads click on the page numbers on the bottom right of the page until you find what you are looking for. I know I gave you a bunch of links in your threads, it's probably hard to keep up! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I usually click on an interesting link right when I see it and then bookmark or favorite it so that I don't have to hunt through old threads to find it later. You can also do a search (the button is right below "post a reply") for yourself or any other poster by member number/name to find a specific post or thread. If you already knew all this sorry, but someone else could probably use the info anyway.

*****edit****** How are you doing right now? KB

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<small>[ November 02, 2004, 10:28 AM: Message edited by: Cherished ]</small>

I live in Ramsey. Yes good help is hard to find.

I did not know that about the search bit thanks Knewbetter. I also do not know how to quote and all the fun stuff all yall do here!!

I am doing well. Weekend was GREAT as compared to many!! H was nice and actually went grocery shopping with me and gave me a kiss with out rolling his eyes!! I was a little crabby for a while yesterday and he just let it roll off instead of making it worse, incidently it made my mood better faster!! I was just hurt for awhile because we both had the day off first time in MONTHS and he had called a friend to do something, which hurt my feelings termendously- luckly that friend was busy. Have not heard from H today, and I e-mailed him, but so far nothing back. It is the week before hunting, so he is typically on his best behavior as he is excited to leave.

C

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You can see how horrible Cherished sitch was, *********edit***
I'm hoping that you are starting to recognise what is healthy behavior in a marriage and what is not. I think once you register and start posting on SYMC you'll get some good help in that direction,

I also think it would be good for you to check out Cherished old posts, it was months and years in between episodes if my memory serves me. Telly is another poster you might want to do a search on, she's mostly on the EN board I think. KB

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<small>[ November 02, 2004, 10:30 AM: Message edited by: Cherished ]</small>

wow you really are keeping an eye on me. I do see things, I do. I just still see so much good in my H to do anything real about it. Hopefully I will not have tunnel vision until it is too late. Thanks again

I have it Cherished. feel free to edit now.

I will contact you soon.

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<small>[ November 02, 2004, 10:30 AM: Message edited by: Cherished ]</small>

I have e-mailed you.

I have three boys, live in a nice 2 story in a great neighborhood full of kids. Neighbors think H is fabulaus- which he sure can be!!!

Let me know when you get my e-mail..

knewbetter- heard back- thanks

having a hard night.

Why is it I am just as lonely in my Marriage as I was with him gone? Granted it goes in waves, but still, you know??? Anythoughts on that

H

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<small>[ November 02, 2004, 10:34 AM: Message edited by: Cherished ]</small>

Do I just post a request?

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