Hello,

Any books out there that help explain how FWS will rewrite history and try to point out bad things in the BS in order to alleviate guilt / shift blame? My H is almost frantic in his attempt to find something that I did wrong and/or evidence that I had an A. He has always been a "blame shifter", but I think that if he can learn how this urge is not uncommon for a WS/FWS, then he may be able to deal with it in a more constructive manner and get to the real issue.

Our MC is generally good, but doesn't deal w/ infidelity 100% of his time and H won't do phone counseling w/ MB.

Any books that can help out? SAA doesn't explain this as much as I would like it to.

Thanks