Well, OK, that is better. My very own thread. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> My dear, I am afraid you have spoilt me! As they say down in OZ.
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Anyway will get my finger out and get it finished </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I am so glad you clarified this. I was wondering if you had some witchy way of writing thesis papers, or if you only had one finger to type with, or . . . You see my dilemma. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
All of that sounds absolutely wonderful. Hm, manipulating after 3 years? Holding him to a commitment he made? Hm. Sounds like my H last night trying to tell me I was "making" him mad.
I felt like saying, "Dear, if I could MAKE you do anything, I would have MADE you not have an A!" Good grief. Instead, I just calmly stood up and went to bed.
This morning, he was more of the same, telling me he shouldn't let ME get to him. Ugh. I just didn't enroll. I just went about my day, and let that issue die. Days like today I wonder if we quit MC too soon! But I realize we had this even during MC, and by the time the weekly appointment came around, we had pulled ourselves out and ended up just reporting what happened to the MC.
Scary. I feel like we've been pushed out of the nest, and we have to fly all by ourselves. I know we can do it, though. AND, our MC is just one call and about one mile away. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
How exciting to have your kids coming home soon! 21 is not the drinking age over there, is it? Are 21st birthdays there like they are here? SCARY!
Thank you so much for checking in with me. I do think you doubt yourself too much. I sometimes begin thinking "what if he just came home to do the right thing, what if he wants to be somewhere else, with someone else, blah blah blah." Then I realize what a tremendous amount of ENERGY that would take. And I dismiss it. Life is too short.
I love you! Thank you! Great hearing from you!
Spider Slayer