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I am TRYING to use Plan A to the best of my ability. I am semi-confused about it. Some people have mentioned really good threads on it...Do you know how I would find them? Do you have sexual intercourse with your spouse during plan A if they are still in the affiar? Do you call them to say a random "I love you" When he says something like.. 'please don't call while I am at the OW house' or 'I have to be back at the OW house by 8 or she will be upset with me. What should my responce be? Is it best that the WH know about MB? I am trying to do this the best I can... Thanks for all the help. Danielle
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pasting this on to a plan a post...
hope to gets lots of feedback for you... these are good questions...
ark
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Danielle, This link has all the Plan A links embedded....John 39 put it together, and if you follow all the links, you'll have agood head start. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> John39's Compliment to WAT's QuickStart
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Star*fish, Thank you for that link! It was VERY helpful! WH keeps saying that he hopes the book is right and he will come home eventually but right now he is not ready. Danielle
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Yes! Sex with WS during PLAN A. As I was told, make claim on your territory. It was an essential ingredient of MY PLAN.
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